I just made that up to shorten my title.Haha.It means "Too Much Advise" mine included so just ignore me if you feel like my reasoning is so out of place and not making sense. "Never EVER apologise for who you are and how you feel. And don't ever let anyone make you feel like you should" Recently,while editing my tumblr and weebly and I have come across posts from people I've followed talking much about EMPOWERMENT and It's cool because they are helping people instead of turning them down with negativity and all.Well,if you just read them,they are great and you believe every single quote you read like those I've copied here in my weebly STATUS page.But I realized sometimes,you have to really validate and reason out if that works for you or maybe the person who said those lines is either under psychological treatment such as depression or the likes.
So for the quote I posted above,it pretty much summarized the messages I have been seeing on their post.I did a little digging and apparently,the quote usually comes from people who have depression tendencies and this is the advise given out to them by their pyschologist.But admit it,whether you are not into treatment or not,the quote above really does makes BIG SENSE! But I think this STATUS goes SPECIFICALLY for people who have CONFIDENCE ISSUES.People who looked down on themselves so much or feel INSECURE most of the time.People who are too scared to live their lives in the open for fear of being rejected or unwanted. What's really funny is people who are usually over confident are usually the ones who CLAIM this instead of those who needed it.Like sometimes if you are friends with people who are over confident to the point that they are really offending and because you love them,you talk them out and you'll get the reply like; "this is who I am! I don't care and you deal with it! " It takes lots of guts to be honest with those we love.But if you made that effort and the convie ended like this,how would you deal with it? So I really think,it's important for someone to look inside oneself and validate.If by being you,you're hurting most of the people who love you,then it means there's something you need to work on.It's true,you don't have to apologize for your feelings.You are free to feel it.If you're hurt then feel it.If you're offended then feel it.If someone put you unreasonably down,IGNORE. "I don't care" this is a phrase that I really hated so much.Because most of the time,they mean the other way around. Also,if you have drunk too much confidence then you might as well try to poop and piss some so you'll starve a little. Just saying....
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jen
4/2/2014 09:47:00 am
nice one!
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