punk-fairy-dreamer said: Hi there Rosie! So in your I Never videos, we learn about lots of somewhat regrettable experiences of yours, involving sex, drugs and alcohol. But you don't appear to regret it. How? Can you give me advice on how to not live life filled with regret? Why would I regret any of my experiences? First of all, I’m a bisexual, so I would never regret sleeping with a man or a woman. From a very early age I have accepted that sex with both genders is a thing I am more than comfortable with. Why would I ever regret consensual sex? It’s my body, I can do what I want with it. If I want to have sex with someone, I will. I refuse to feel ashamed or guilty or regret a decision I made. Because I obviously felt at the time it was a good decision and I went ahead with it. So no, I don’t regret having consensual sex with anybody.
Secondly, why should I regret drinking alcohol? Sometimes alcohol has made me sick, but that’s what it does, in excess. If you’re a drinker, you learn your limit, how much you can handle and how much you can’t through experience. I had a really wild past of parties and drinking and I look back at amazing memories. I’m not saying you have to drink to have a good time at all, I’m just saying I’m not against drinking and I had good times. Lastly, I would never ever promote anyone to do drugs. Or to have sex or drink alcohol. I would suggest for people to do whatever the hell they want and whatever they are comfortable with and not listen to anyone else. (Except, perhaps some wise friends and family who love you.) I took drugs in the past, and now I don’t touch them, and would never touch the ever again. But I don’t regret anything in my life. Everything that has happened to me has molded me into who I am today. I have learned huge, valuable lessons from my past that make me feel so proud of how far I've come. I can recognize mistakes I've made and told myself not to make them again, and I haven’t. I've learned that it’s ok to slip up, because I know from experience I can get back up and dust myself off and carry on to a better place. I never ever look back on my life with sadness or regret, and neither should you. If you ever do something that makes you feel sad, mad, anxious or guilty, promise yourself that you will not do that thing again if it makes you feel this way. Hold yourself to this promise, move on and learn that you can trust yourself to look after yourself. In time you will trust your instincts and decisions you make as you know you are wise enough to make the best decisions for you."
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