When I feel bored and lifeless I just go online and read a lot of stuff about different approaches on how to be of positive influence and how to love yourself.There are so many tips provided such as ignore those who can't love you.Stay away from someone who keeps reminding you that you drink too much coffee.Love yourself.If they cannot accept you for who you are,then let them go.Do not mind them.Etc.Seemed good advice isn't it? It got me thinking lately,how come people mostly speak about self love,acceptance,confidence and everything centered on themselves. It's confusing when there are many advice available but still,after trying most of them,you feel unsatisfied,sometimes it even gets worse. One downside of following other people's advise is when you followed their advice and you finally made some progress,one day they look at you like someone who came from outer space.They now claim they don't recognize you after.You are finally the person they wanted you but now they come to you are a totally different person now! What the heck! You expected me to change for you and when I did you give me that drama?
I admire vocal people.I admire people who actually step outside their comfort zone and fearlessly try new things from time to time.I admire people who know their rights and will do everything to fight for their rights.I appreciate them.But what I don't appreciate are people who think they can speak for everyone in this world always. I have a different culture and moral values from anyone else in this world.I don't take it negatively when someone tells me to change out of care.I would appreciate that hugely. I have a friend who literally count how many cups of coffee I have each day to make sure I don't over consume because it's one of my weaknesses.I appreciate that. There's obviously differences in culture around the world.Lots of people from the west are known to be frank,outspoken and very independent.I admire that so much.What really saddens me is the amount of disorders or depression we suffer from.
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This happens when I try to rest my mind but I keep thinking and I seem to keep remembering what I have been thinking and I ended writing them.
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