Did someone ever tell you they look up to you? (not Kim Kardashian or Miley Cyrus,not even a celebrity but YOU) It's the best feeling in the world isn't it?
If a family member or a close friend who knows everything about you yet still tells you they look up to you and is always so proud of you,I think that's the best compliment in the whole wide world.Well,for me I think it is.Or maybe I'm biased. Let me tell you why... Our family or those we are close with are the only people who know our worst and every bit of annoying things we do.So when a family member or someone who knows all all about me including my ugliness but still tells me she look up me.It means the world to me! So when my sister told me that she look up to me and that I am her role model and sometimes I hear my mama talk proudly about me secretly to people and it makes makes me feel like I'm in cloud 9.For me,that's an accomplishment that the first people who looks up to me is my family. I kept thinking if I ever deserve to be that person they can ever look up.I have achieve nothing much career wise and I'm so much flawed in everything .I don't have skills,I can't sing or dance.I basically have nothing to boast about.That's why I never thought I can ever be that person my sister can look up to.I'm not bright or super cool.I didn't have impressive achievements to brag about. Turns out she looked up to me for my resilience and persistence in life.She's now experiencing almost the same struggle and pain I've had dealt with when I was her age and every time she wanted to give up all together,she thinks of me and how far I've gone and that gives her hope that things will get better eventually. To anybody out there who feel like giving up.Who felt you have lived a series of disappointments.Who felt like nothing matters anymore.Brace your self and keep moving forward.The fact that you are alive today is a strong message to the world. I learned that life isn't all about how successful career and how much you earn.To students,your future isn't measured by your class cards. Even.Even your teachers doesn't have the right to mark and predict your future.Your future depends on your own attitude and your ability to never give up when all else fails. Out of experience,I assure you things will surely get better.It's just a matter of positivism.
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