I was casually scrolling down on my facebook page last night and I saw this status by Radio Lebanon... I'm fully aware that it's a joke meant to lighten the mood but I think there's really such a decent place to joke specially if it's something really this sensitive. I also know this is the internet where people can just hide their identity so they can do and say whatever they want online.It's actually easier to tell what kind of person we are based on our social media activities. I don't expect everyone to express full sympathy to the victims but the fact that you are a huge social media icon where most of your followers are just teenagers or worse kids should have that social responsibility to somehow know your limits. I cannot believe how one can be this insensitive ? I cannot just keep my silence so I wrote this.... A day after,I got nine replies to my comment telling me "I'm stupid", that " It's funny so I should fuck off" and more replies saying it would be an honor that more people will die or be killed through them acquiring this virus.I'm wondering,if this really happened to them in real life,can they still just laugh about it and really gather all the people they want to murder so they can sneeze on them? I could not believe how one can actually wish for the death of the entire human race? Well,one would say BUT THIS IS JUST A JOKE!!! With the following hash tag #facepalm #idiot #stupid #fuckoff #youdon'tgetit and the list of hash tags can go on and on... I scrolled down a bit and saw this comment... I'm so glad because just as I'm loosing hope in seeing humanity in this generation,somehow there are still very few people who still have a beautiful heart like her.
This reality saddened me really.I cannot expect anyone to be compassionate and kind and I am in no way as compassionate or kind but I'm sensitive and I know what sympathy is.If you don't feel something then at least,don't say something really ugly specially if you'r trying to be funny because to be honest,shame on you! When you are angry,sad,confused,disappointed,hurt,misunderstood,or you feel like you wanted to murder someone so bad or just whatever mood you are in,just write everything down.Write like it's just you and no one's judging.Write all your fears and feelings.Just write til you settle the rage within you.Write to help you calm down.Write until you resolve the conflict within you.Write and never stop ...until you clear your head and your feeling subsides.
The big difference between verbal and written is,when you say something to someone out of anger,you cannot take it back but when you write it down,it's just between you and yourself. Few years after,when you read them back all you could do is smile and move on because I'm certain,FEELINGS ARE TEMPORARY and it's okay to feel it as oppose to opening up to someone and they shut you off because they feel tired of having to put up with your rants.This way,you keep your secrets to yourself.Also,you save yourself trom sharing your whole lifestory in SOCIAL MEDIA.You have no idea what it's like sharing all the negative vibes to anyone reading it specially people who already have an unpleasant day. So It's always safe to write them down to settle your feelings first.When you are angry,you will be so honest enough that even secrets can be unintentionally brought up.So you might as well want to calm down first. UNLESS,someone invades your privacy then well... It's okay to PUNCH them in the face! Okay,just kidding.No to violence! Also,if you are a naturally attention seeker then well,there's not much we can do about it. Haha... THIS IS JUST MY POV.WE HAVE UNIQUE WAYS IN DEALING WITH OUR PERSONAL STUFF SO IM NOT SAYING THIS WORKS FOR EVERYONE BECAUSE PROBABLY IT WON'T WORK TO ANYONE BUT ME.MAYBE.THERE'S ALWAYS MANY SIDES TO CONSIDER BUT I'M SURE A CIRCLE DOESN'T HAVE ANY SIDE, OBVIOUSLY.... #myrandomthoughts Baha.Stranded.Init ulo tapos gutom ka pa sa tagal mo nang nakaupo dyan sa jeep o fx.
Bumuhos ang napakalakas na ulan sa loob lamang na ilang minuto,BAHA na ang malaking bahagi ng Metro Manila.Yikes! Mapa FB man o twitter,karamihan sa nakikita kong posts o status ngayong hapon maging sa balita ay tungkol sa baha dulot ng malakas na ulan kanina.Andaming napipikon at naiinis dahil sa matagal na traffic dahil di na makadaan ang mga sasakyan sa kalsada.Mataas ang tubig kasi. Atleast may internet connection ka at nakapag status ka pa di ba.Yung iba naman,biglang nagkaroon ng panahong mabasa sa wakas yang libro na dinownload ng halos isang taon na ata ang nakakaraan at ngayon lang naisipang basahin.Kundi dahil sa baha,aabutin pa yan ng 10 years! Haha Going back,may ibang pa ngang nakapagstatus upang batikusin ang gobyerno.Tigilan daw pangungurakot at ayusin ang drainage! Iba talaga ang nagagawa ng baha.Masusubukan ang pasensya,lakas at pagkatao mo. Yung iba,GALIT SA ULAN! Bakit ba daw ulan ng ulan! Umuulan na naman! Tingin ko,walang kasalanan ang ulan dahil yun talaga ang nature nya.Uulan pag kailangan.Tingin ko,parang sobra naman atang magalit tayo sa ulan eh ginagampanan lang naman nya ang role nya bilang ULAN.Magreklamo ka kung umulan ng apoy. Iba na yun,Apocalypse na.Matakot ka pag nangyari yun.Hahaha. Anyway,wala akong pinagkaiba sa kahit sino lalo pa't ang iksi ng pasensya ko.Siguro,pag isa ako sa mga stranded ngayon,malamang magrereklamo din ako. Naisip ko lang,bakit ba anlalakas nating magreklamo o magdemand ng kung ano ano pero ni balat ng kendi o basura natin di natin kayang itapon sa basurahan? It all starts small sabi nila.Ang Maynila for example.Ilang minutong ulan,baha na agad tapos makikita mo lumulutang ang mga basura. Makikita mo may mga drainage naman,di naman bumababa tubig,barado dahil sa basura! Tama nga,may magagawa ang gobyerno pero sino ba ang gobyerno? Sa tingin ko,kapag ang gobyerno natin ay binubuo ng responsible at disiplinadong mamamayan,di siguro tayo madalas bahain ng ganyan. Sa mga gumamit ng social media para ipaabot ang hinain o di kaya just to raise awareness,salamat pero sana din gampanan natin ang ating role bilang isang mamamayan. Disiplina din lang talaga lalo na sa basura.Madaming tao talaga ang hindi ko maintindihan.Kadalasan pansin ko yun sa CR.Yung mga tissue,nasa sahig katabi ng basurahan! Tingin ko malaki ang maitutulong natin starting in our own small little ways gaya ng pagtapon ng basura ng tama.Tingin ko madami tayong magagagawa upang makatulong.Kaysa magreklamo,think of other ways to help. |
This happens when I try to rest my mind but I keep thinking and I seem to keep remembering what I have been thinking and I ended writing them.
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