This is LOVE STORIES in the world of my friends that I had the chance to be with for the past few months and even years.I thought of writing about their LOVE STORIES because.... they are just amazing and inspiring! This is an effect of drinking 4 cups of brewed coffee in one shift! And so,I'm doing nothing at work,no calls,no escalations.I mean too much work and lots of drunk and perv callers so I just shut the line so I can blog.Kidding,why would I do that.I just logged out.Is that bad?! Yeah but no one is looking! Well,except the camera zoomed at me :) So tonight,out of randomness,I just thought of writing about love stories of people that I actually know off.So I'm going to feature them here because I ate too much cheese and also,Miley Cyrus steal the limelight again when she kissed Katy Perry.Did she liked it? Maybe or well, we'll wait for the next song.Maybe the answer is there. So my point is,pointless.This is how weird I am and how messed up my brain is. Anywho,LOVE is the BIGGEST topic that I know almost nothing about (apart from flirting and wearing make ups and dresses) but seeing the love story of people around me specially my friends gave me an idea of what love is and lately,they have inspired me greatly. I say,LOVE is something that I would never ever understand.It is something that would stay mysterious with so much continuous surprises! I don't think even SIRI or Mr Webster has perfect answers or definition to everyone who wanted to know more about this powerful feeling called LOVE. So I'll give just a very FEW definition of what love is according to what I see and how I see it.Don't kill me for misquoting or posting something that you might not agree with.Just explain to me nicely and we will come to terms.Also,I didn't interview these people because I trust my instinct better than them! Hahahaha.Or according to my friend Verms,I'm being JUDGMENTAL here but I'm the best judge you can ever come across so trust me:) This is Love defined from different perspectives,situations,circumstances and most of all coming from all kinds of relationships.Wether a girl-boy,girl-girl,boy-dog,girl-cat relationship.Wait,sorry for the animals.I just got confuse to how a dog became man's best friend stealing it from humans! But anyway,All sorts of POV's actually.A mother to a child,a complicated situation or a confused human being in love to NO ONE IN PARTICULAR.Go figure that out... Most of all,these people didn't tell me these things.This is just between my eyes and my mind ...sometimes,my heart included.... LOVE.DEFINITELY.ATE AYA & KUYA EY
Since both were missionary volunteers and have been to camps and conferences together,friendship started to grow.Girl started to see the positive side of boy.She opened up to friends and family and elders (me included) but all of us doesn't like boy for her.(to which later we apologized hehe).Things were pretty rough due to distance and challenges with people surrounding them.Boy didn't give up.Girl gave it a go and after two years,got married! Story of their life. Sometimes,love gets sweeter in the hardest of times! LOVE IS BITTERSWEET EHM & MARJAN LOVE IS PATIENT,LOVE IS KIND. I could not imagine how long Marjan waited for Ehm to love him back.Or how long he courted her.Or how far he'd done stuff crazily just to make her pay attention to him.Chum is always surrounded by good looking and promising suitors.She never ran out of suitors and that makes Marjan insecure and unconfident.But one day,he gathered his strength and told her how much he loved her in ages.He got turned down.But he never stopped.He asked and asked.He waited and waited and after 4 years,Chum said yes.And few years after,they got married last December 2013. Can love be develop over time? Theirs did. LOVE IS SACRIFICEJEN AND TOTO I've never witness anything like hers.It was really incredibly amazing how a woman like Jen can endure such pain for years.Just that uncertainty of her future is really painful to think about but I admire her hugely for her determination and for believing and fighting for love.How did she do it? How did she manage it ? There were times I told her,If I were in her shoes,I might have given up a long time ago.I might not have gone this far like hers.But she did.She stood for Toto waiting and hoping someday he will be released and he did come home a few months ago.Was it worth it?! Yes,it was.She did everything she could and her sacrifice had been repaid! How could such a fragile small heart contain such suffering for a long time?! Love did! Love is indeed a sacrifice I must say! Or as Patty says to Ginny,"In love there's no fear! It conquers fear! LOVE IS HARD TO SPELL AND UNDERSTAND VERMS & STUFFY This is a love story between a woman and a seal.The seal traveled the world over in search of his true love and returns home to find it.And now,the baby came along on the day they decided to take their relationship to the next level.Sometimes,the rain falls even if it's so sunny.Sometimes,darkness falls at mid day.So you see,it's really complicated.Only love has the power to do that. My point is,I can't fully understand what's happening.It's like a tornado with a typhoon and a hurricane coated with an earthquake,all build up in outer space and decided to invade someone's world in 2013 moving forward. This is probably the kind of LOVE that I would never ever understand for the meantime.But,I have to admit,witnessing such love story made me nervous but still laugh in fear and afraid of this kind of love.At the same time,makes it very interesting. It's extra ordinary.It's bittersweet.It's both torture and blessing.It's exciting.It's annoying.It's I don't know.It's complicated so go figure that out. Now I know,love is not meant to be understood.Nor can I use quadratic equation to solve it.I can't even use STATISTIC to come up with Probability.Nor My Psychology major is not helping me at all to understand all these things. Well,I guess LOVE is just the way it is.It's unique for every one of us and we don't get to waste our time sorting it out but to feel and live it.Well,Verms will vouch for that! The messiness of her love story is as messy as the debris that Super Typhoon Yolanda left.I think?! Okay,maybe a little. (aahhh,it rhymes! haha) DIBS & NEIL I've chosen 3 photos to prove my point-their color coordinated outfits! All I know is they like each other a lot before they started dating.And as much as they want to prolong the dates,they didn't because their first date says it all.So I think it's in the outfit yeah?! Lots of people say it is better when a relationship starts in friendship because you have a common foundation.Yet,this is one thing they don't have in the beggining. Only,Dibs' MAKE UP foundation! (corny,oh well). So let me tell you the whole story.Dibs is really a good singer so she joined the choir where Neil is one of their guitarist.He's actually multi skilled because he can play lots of musical instrument apart from guitar.It was LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT I MUST SAY. Before their practice,Dibs as usual puts on her make up.She used a deep crimson lipstick with false eye lashes and hair extension.Her entrance was dramatic,she pushed that swinging door to the practice room but probably she pushed too much that it bounced back immediately knocking her off in the face.She was twisting in pain but Neil saw her so she has to pretend she's fine.He was still looking at her without blinking so Dibs did the blinking for him.She blinked one hundred times per seconds and SMILED sweetly.Neil still, cannot take off his eyes of her.He stood up where he's seated and slowly approached her sweetly and whispered "girl,may tinga ka"! Hahahahaha! Oh no,Dibs will kill me for this! I'm just kidding.I just want to make her love story dramatic that's all.All realistic BUT NO TRUTHS TO IT. It's just that her love story is sweet in a way that when you fall in love,the only world you know is the person you love the most.That you wake up each day happy and motivated.That you expect a text of "good morning" or "good night".That you talk to that person first thing first the moment you wake up like it replaced your breakfast.That you can talk to the person you love about stuff and boogers and clouds and leaves and feathers and it DOES MAKE SENSE! I'm kidding you guys! But it does make sense sometimes even if all day long you just talk about what haircut you want to have. Well,that being said LOVE IS INDEED SWEET.But you cannot eat,you can only FEEL.Unless you're an EATER then you may... OMG! I don't know what I'm writing anymore... LOVE KNOWS NO DISTANCEKuya Ron and Ate Anne High School sweethearts separated by priorities and distance.Girl went abroad,got citizenship.When FB was introduced,started reconnecting and kinda rekindled that relationship.He applied for a job in Canada where ate Anne resides.Got married there and now with a baby. What's really amaze about their love story is usually,people meet or reconnect again for a closure to move on.Theirs is a confrontational thing and they both realized after years of separation and silence,they really belong to each other and it escalated to marriage.Yeah,that kind of LOVE makes me bitter!Hahaha Well,Marco's line in the movie when he said "when you really love someone,You can't unlove them".Either it gets deeper or it changes. So,who can really tell what love does in a person's life?! Even Senator Mirriam Santiago can't answer that rationally I guess? I don't mean to drag her but I'm just loving her Vday banat quotes!Hahaha So yeah,LOVE CAN'T BE BOXED unless you want to then you may.Only,I prefer a box of chocolates.But I don't eat them.I only stuck them for the ANTS because I don't want them to starve. Animal rights activists might held me responsible for it so... LOVE KNOWS NO RACE (and height and weight) TIN & MAT Tin currently resides in Aussie with one baby girl.It was least expected that she'll marry a foreigner as she doesn't usually fancy them but one fine day,she has to work in Aussie and someone fell in love with her and she did the same. Well,who would not love Pinay women right? Also,who would not love a tall,white, financially secure Aussie?! I'm kidding.But it's true,he's tall white Aussie! In all fairness,he was Tin's friend for a period of time when she was in Aussie and when her contract ended at work,her contract to marriage and commitment started.For the first time,I have a friend who married a foreigner not VIA SOCIAL MEDIA or DATING ONLINE. She get to meet this guy,spend months with him and fell in love.Despite the huge differences in terms of culture (and height and weight) they seemed more in love each year.That kind of love is inspiring! LOVE KNOWS NO GENDERWell,they are not yet paid for modelling "Fairview Terraces" so we'll asked for a treat once paid yeah! The "AA or the Double A" in this photo has nothing to do with a battery or electrons.It's not about positively charged ION or negatively charged electrons.Okay,I have to stop because I'm sure,I'm quoting Science here incorrectly.Someone might imprison me and I can't afford any lawyer. AA I think is a term of endearment and it is how they call each other.I say,it is very creative and artistic because they are the only ones I know off who call each other that.Also,I think it's very symbolic.Letter "A" is the first letter of the Alphabet and it's always prioritized.Now,when you put double AA specially when saved on your phone,that name is always first in line and that's very BENEFICIAL as well in terms of emergency as compared to "hon","baby" or worse if you spell like jejemon such as "bhabhy" or "Shweerty" (oh,that didn't go right) where in you have to scroll down lots of times wondering what spelling you used or what named you saved on your phone! On a serious note,I admire them for their guts and fearlessness to just display their love and affection for each other in the open.I'm sure,there are lots of challenges they have encountered or might still be facing together but they bravely faced the other ones and I'm sure,nothing can hinder a love as strong as they have. I admire Luzsil for not giving a shit to people's reaction.I admire her for her guts because as far as I know,I think this is her first serious gay relationship.She's not usually into serious commitment type of relationship as she puts it but when she met Jay Anne,things changed for her.She entrusted her heart and they have been together longer and I find that really amazing and magical. BEV & MISS BI just thought this photo is kinda artistic and very expressive.See their hands (and legs).No further explanation needed.You don't even have to see their face to see emotions of two people in love.The way they held on each others hands says it all.(I think?! Omg! I'm doubting my guts!Hahaha) For the span of time that I know Miss B,I have seen her relationships both with a man and a woman,dog,stuff toys,headsets and her tumbler (beautifully covered with a green scarf).Hahahaha,Kidding! I don't have any idea how she falls in love.I don't even notice.It's not like we talk all the time,duh?! I don't notice when she use her breaks to call someone and giggle on the phone as long as I can remember.I don't see the spark in her eyes when she just finish talking to "that person" or I don't even laugh maniacally of her mannerisms specially when she's excited to tell me something. My point is,sometimes I hear people from the same cut who says BISEXUALS are not trustworthy because they are just experimenting and they would just fall over to any human who comes along their way.Either a boy,a girl,a dog,a frog prince or a dino.Kidding again.Sorry... Sometimes,it's confusing too when you hear people talk about their sexuality and they have all these kinds of labels.When you are gay,it's like you must be in either of these categories;LESBIAN,GAY,TRANSVESTITE,TRANSGENDER,BISEXUAL,BICURIOUS,LISPTICK LESBIANS,PANSEXUALS,PANDESAL,PANDECOCO,PALAMAN,HOTDOG! Sorry,I just got carried away. When I met Miss B,I realized it's not always the case.I never heard her label herself and went making a big deal out of it.I have seen her fall in love like thrice the whole time I met her and she has that same feeling and adoration whether it's a biologically girl or boy. Her love story made me realize,you just love who you love and just don't give a shit to what the society demands you to do or label yourself with.You're just being you and when you love someone,love them like it's the last person you ever meet in your life.Treat them with respect and adoration.Or in her world,it's always valentines day 364 days a year,except valentines because she don't celebrate valentines.Cool girl! I like her being both open and reserved in her relationships.Open and reserved because it all depends whom she's talking to and what she's gonna talk about.I admire her ability to see beyond the persons sexuality and love that person all it's complication,challenges and pain that might come along with it.She's just incredibly brave. I just find their MEME cute.Oh wait,this is them for real? Oh! Still cute and lovely y'all!
So far these two are the only couple I knew at the office who were really serious and gave in to commitment for a longer time.I really knew lots of people from their circle who's only up to flirting but not really into long term relationships.Not sure if they don't have any option or they just feel tired of non stop flirting so they just decide to settle down.I'm kidding but maybe it's true! OMG! Sorry Bea and Denis.Peace. On a serious note,I admire them both! I can go on and on and on.Only,I decided to stop.Indeed,even the sky and the sea and the outer space (or the whole OUTMOSPHERE) is not enough to contain all stories about love.So,I just decided to stop it because MINE is on queue. Will get back once I found MINE :) Or maybe,it's gone. Oops,wait for me! I'm here! Don't you dare leaving without me, Don't lea.. Wait... One seco.. Waaaaiiiiiittttt! I reallly have to go,bye!
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Jen
3/28/2014 10:25:35 am
awww... nakaka touch naman to. When I open this blig I didn't expect to see our faces. heheh.. Love is Sacrifice talaga ah..
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glow
3/30/2014 09:20:25 pm
Hi jen,my one true fan on weebly.Hahaha.It's funny because you found out about this while it's still on draft.I was supposed to let you know once finalized but yeah,I just had it finalized yesterday.
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Jen
4/2/2014 09:08:29 am
you know me ;)... I was just enjoying exploring everyone's blog especially yours. I admire how you manage to maintain yours. So, even though I know I can't make one, atleast read one. hahah
B♥
3/30/2014 08:00:43 pm
Thank you for the nice words, Ellen DeGeneres. I was floooooored!!!! ♥♥♥
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glow
3/30/2014 09:23:24 pm
Who is Ellen De Generes?! LOL
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glow
3/31/2014 11:25:05 pm
Hi D! I didn't realize the names of the people commenting here are trying to FINISH THE ALPHABET! hahaha
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