Okay,we're not doing an EYE TEST,don't worry.I just tried reading it with my eye glasses on,my face almost glued on the monitor screen but I failed the test. Also,I hope you get to finish this boring article before you doze off.Oh wait,that's exactly the idea.Hahaha Anywho,It's been a while since the last time I have written something.I have been busy perving other people's blog that's why.But something happened today inspiring me to write this. PIECES OF ADVICE Today,I'm really feeling real old so that qualifies me to talk about things I learned in life.Truth is,I learn nothing because I kept forgetting them due to old age.Senility is really a big deal,yeah?! SO I tried looking back,sort of doing reflection .I remember those pieces of advice given to me when I was younger.These are pieces of advice from grown ups,parents,friends and significant others,oh wait.I don't have any. Sometimes Oprah and Ellen De Generes come and sit with me for a drink while they gave me their two cents about LIFE because they both are the inventor and author of LIFE & HAPPINESS,wealth included.And when I got really drunk,I also gave them my million dollar questions. Why are we talking MAth here.Change topic please! At that time,of course I believe every single thing people tell me because they are way older,more confident and experienced.But today,I come to realize,what people told me doesn't always apply and doesn't work for me ALWAYS. Not because you have those pouting lips means you'll be married to Brad Pit.Or not because you're using Magic sing doesn't mean your voice is as good as Sarah Geronimo,maybe Manny Pacquiao will do.Or not because you're standing on a car park doesn't make you're a car. So here are few of the things I was told which today I can confidently say it's DEBETABLE. Whoever that person who told me this is JUDGEMENTAL.But sometimes true though!Oh my dot! I'm doubting myself.Hahaha I come to realize today that this is MOSTLY untrue.This is only TRUE when you're flirting someone or you're trying to get into someone's pants without any plans of getting in touch with them after.It's also true when you're trying to impress your boss for promotion.Or if you have personality disorder and you're naturally an attention seeker. On a serious note though,I believe that this is subjective depending on the situation.First impression last only to strangers but it doesn't apply to FRIENDS or people you get to see everyday or meet more than once.People are changeable and can display different types of attitude depending on who they are with,where they are or on the situation.So if you really give chance to mingle or know more about that person,then you'll be surprise to discover things.You'll learn that there's more to what is visible. The usual impression about me is SNUB,TOMBOY,SCARY,UNAPPROACHABLE,MOODY.Ask my friends,they totally agree,that's what I am for real until now! Oh wait,I don't have friends! hahaha BE THE PERSON YOU ARE UNLESS YOU ARE HORRIBLE THEN DON'T. I have met lots of people who have high regard of themselves but they are really so annoying and horrible.People who always say I don't care because this is who I am! So just let them just as they claim they are,lots of them end either in mental hospital or prison.Just kidding.It's just that chances are they don't have friends.Atleast,REAL friends.Or friends who cares and loves them unconditionally.Okay,that's a positive self talk but let's draw the line here. If you are a thief,a family breaker,an intruder,a bad driver,an addict.A murderer.A rapist.Do you really think you can go on living being who you are? If you live like you hated everything in this world,do you plan on sticking with that forever? Of course you are free to live your life the way you wanted it and be happy.You may as you wish as long as you are not the reason of other people's grief and pain.Yes,be the person you are BUT live responsibly and live in total awesomeness and contribute something to make this world a better place.We only live life once so live it well and be awesome! Says the bitter .Lol.This is true but this is also not true. Let's draw the line here again.Today,reality is BEAUTIFUL people own the universe including the Milky way and Superman's Fortress of Solitude .If you have an irressistable beautiful face as Miranda Kerr, nice butt like Beyonce,hips that don't lie such as Shakira ,the flattest yummiest AB as that of Ian Sommerhalder or the sexiest lips as that of Angelina Jolie then you'd probably share the universe with them. Truth hurts but that's reality these days. I think BEAUTIFUL people are marketable without needing to exert much effort.Just look at the Kardashians.Proof right?! Also,I tell you why beautiful people are more advance in terms of marketability and benefits. HERE ARE FEW PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS (these are just subjective and personal observations.I may be wrong and greatly wrong)
How many times have I experienced that.I sometimes go to the bank wearing my home clothes and the teller was really either passive,dismissive or rude at times.But when I'm wearing something decent,I'm treated nicely.See the difference.
I can go on and on with the PERKS of being beautiful BUT remember this,if you know your brain is not as sexy and beautiful as your body,then just answer everyone with a sweet smile.Just try being cute to divert the attention.The least thing you ever wanted is people being turn off the moment you open your mouth. Unless you are Sophia Vergara,you can be anything and say anything you want and people just love you the way you are. I personally think this is an IMMATURE,SELFISH & MEDIOCRE advice SOMETIMES you can ever give specially to the person you care the most.It felt like you're claiming them to be restricted to your own boundaries for your own benefit UNLESS you changed JUST TO PLEASE OTHERS THEN DON'T! I understand that some people say this out of affection or paglalambing but when you say this,atleast be specific. This is fine I think within the bounderies when you're talking about that shared feeling of love and affection between you and that person you care but be open minded to possibilities.When you boxed your expecation of people specially friends,this can end to " bestfriend turned enemies".When things change between two people,it becomes and issue and before you knew it,you're done with them because they didn't dwell with your expectations. In friendship,I learned that eventually PEOPLE CHANGE.Either that change can help,inspire,challenge or sadly HURT you which is the most case.But change is part of a person's life.Either for the better or for the worse,people change.And those changes affects you depending on how you see things. Well,if the person is super awesome,then yes by all means plead them not to change.But if the person is normal like anyone else who's got flaws and lessons that they need yet to learn in the process of being alive,then encourage them to expand their horizons.If you're friends with someone you see with great potential,even if it makes you feel left out,just let them follow where they are passionate at. As I grow older,I'm amaze to actually find out that even myself has the ability to surprise me in ways I never ever imagine.If you can surprise yourself that way,how much more with people.I'm telling all these because I'm really such a sentimental person that when people in my life changed,I feel like I'm replaced.That I'm not enough or that I have nothing much to offer.As time goes by,I learned that people change and part of that change is to challenge me to change too.Yes,it's always challenging to accept those changes but try to be open minded always. ALSO, YOU ONLY DIE ONCE.So this is a clever advice but it doesn't give you the license to experiment on drugs.Okay,some people do it for health reasons BUT I'm refering to those who do it for coolness and the gang's sake.You still have to do things responsibly.Living your life doesn't mean going wild,inducing poison to yourself.Abusing youself because that's not yours in the first place. You only have one life so LIVE IT WELL. I did my best.I worked hard BUT I'M STILL SO POOR AND HELPLESS!WHY?! Also,I was expecting a house, a car and a vast plantation but it didn't follow mate.Hahahaha This is DEBETABLE.This depends on how one set their standard.If you are mediocre and you set a standard far below what your boss expected of you,more likely you'll lose your job. Sometimes,it's not enough to just be the best.Sometimes,it's not about being the best always.Sometimes it's physical beauty I don't know where I get that but I thought that's a real advice. Also,don't drag God into it if in the first place,you are not a believer.Some people say they don't believe in God but when in trouble,they ask God to perform miracles.Just know your boundery though. This is an absolute BS.This doesn't work for everyone.If your bestfriend stole your boyfriend from you,how the hell can you just let it go the pain just like that? Unless,they will pay me for the heart damage then that's fine. For me,it's more like this... FORGIVING is not something that you can just ask for.How many times have I been lying to myself when I tell the person who asked me for forgiveness that I forgive them specially if they do it in the cutest way when in reality,I still hurt.Forgiving takes time and personal healing.You cannot ask for it unless the person is willing and ready.
FORGETTING I think is the bigger challenge.Or did I just took it literally.You cannot just forget something that leave you scars.It doesn't matter whether it's a good or bad memory,you can never forget something that really impacted and influenced or changed you hugely,unless you have amnesia.I haven't heard anyone so far who forgot their first boyfriend who took their virginity and ripped their heart after.Unless you've inherited bad memory then that's acceptable. I can really go on and on with my rant but each of us are entitled to our own opinion and I live the rest for you to ponder.I just want to point out here is don't let people tell you how to live your life,unless you're really so bad in living your own life! Seriously,there's no formula to life and there's no rule that you must follow.What worked for other people might not work for you.Keep moving and learn as much as you can.One thing I'm only sure off is alont the way,we have our ups and downs.But we should keep moving. Always remember,if things didn't go well today,it doesn't mean it will be the same tomorrow and the following days. People's advice are a necessity of course BUT NOT ALWAYS.Just always know when and how to draw the line and you should be fine. Okay,now I'm hungry.This is how life goes with me! Carpe Diem!
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