"KALOG,MATALINO,DEEP,FASHIONISTA,BALIW,UNPREDICTABLE AND MAARTE DAW " 8.22.90 If there's one person who can make me laugh effortlessly,it would be this woman! I blame her for making me go nuts sometimes! I felt like everything about her easily makes me laugh.Her energy level might be tiring to cope up with but her optimism in life is admirable. I can't remember exactly how we became friends.According to her,she's the one who approached me.(I'm sorry for being a snub but I'm flattered to know she really made the effort)As I come to know her,she's not really the type of person who approaches first or even start a conversation to a stranger but well It was very heart warming to know she did talk to me first.I actually believe that everything happens for a reason including the people we'll meet where ever we are.We had this strange connection to strangers. Strangers who were meant to be part of our lives and later on called friends,isn't that amazing?
What interest me most about her is her unique and interesting personality.I love people who are mysterious in some ways.She can be in different moods in just a spur of a moment.She is indeed one heck of unpredictable woman sometimes. But my friendship with Dibs is very different.She's a unique and interesting person.There were even times that I can't understand why we became friends considering we almost don't have anything in common.She's into fashion.As for me,I'm lousy when it comes to even choosing what to wear.She's so feminine and petite,I'm so masculine and well,let's just say I'm just healthy .She loves telenovela or teleserye but me I can't bear watching any telenovela at all! I started developing interest by watching some tagalog movies of course with her.Eventually,I've learned to at least watch a few local good films.But Teleserye,still it doesn't get me.Thanks to her for encouraging me to patronize our own.She loves music and is a very gifted singer.Me I love music and well,music hates me.She's an easy go lucky person who don't concern herself about stuff going around her but me,I'm piled up with the burdens of others that I'm not supposed to be part of.I mean we almost don't have anything in common but look what a surprise life had brought us! Clearly,opposites do attract! I feel responsible for her.I feel protective towards her.I don't need to pretend about certain things that I dislike if I'm with her.I can just blurt it all out and we will end up laughing.I can be as crazy as I want with her.I cried and shared my deepest thoughts to her,even my nastiest things at times.It felt like I need to update her with what's going on in my life even without her asking me.I know and I can feel how she valued me too as a friend.I know she's not emotional or as expressive as I am because obviously,we are very different specially when expressing our feelings.She's just one happy go lucky person and I am Atlas because I carry the weight of the world! I know she seemed like she don't have any care in the world but surprisingly,she can be sweet and clingy.She don't care about what others think because she knew exactly what she wants and how she wanted things be her own way and that's one of her personalities that I envy. Can you imagine how we are so different ? So much different! But does it matter? My friendship with her taught me one thing- there are just some people that are meant to be part of who you are to help nourish and nurture you and make a better version of yourself. What matters is we were friends despite being opposite.I don't want her to change If I may but we all know,as we go along people need to change for a reason.Right now,All I'm asking and wanting is to spend much time with her as I can.I want to create meaningful memories from each moment we have so I can have as many memories to look back in the future if ever we part ways. I love those moments where she can make me laugh effortlessly.I love the moments by just hearing her talk,I can tell if she's very excited and nervous by her rate of her speech.I love those moments where we can just sit and make fun of whatever things we can think of.And of course,one of the things I love the most is how we communicate even in silence.It's an intuitive thing and that's very rare.I love her enthusiasm.I love her for being "pasimple na maloko".Maybe,there were countless reasons about her that I love that will explain despite the individual differences between us,we became friends.I love the way we are.Complicated at times but in good or bad times,we still manage to shake it off and laugh instead. I can go on and on but I know everything that I'm saying bring me back to one truth.For a relationship between two very different people to work,we have to have ACCEPTANCE AND RESPECT OF THE DIFFERENCES OF WHO WE ARE AS A PERSON... If there's one thing that I learned from my friendship with her,it would be being who you are and let others accept you as you are.I also learned that friendship doesn't need to be built on commonality.It isn't about feelings and closeness only.We are not in high school anymore.It's about trust and maturity in the process.It's about being happy with the person you're with sometimes without any specific reason.It's all in the heart and that's what matters. I pray that God will continuously bless her in everything.Above all,may God be her comfort and joy.I know she keep things to herself at times that she's not comfortable to even bring in the open not even to me.I know things will not be the same as always.I know that we might change as time goes by.May she feel God's presence willing to listen always to her every time she needed one to talk to.May God be her stronghold,an ever present help in times of need.And even if things will change between us,may she meet more people who will bless her all the more.May her world expand all the more and not be restricted by a certain phase of relationship....
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