It is impossible to live without failing of something unless you lived so cautiously or not live at all.In which case,you fail by default.
You will never truly know yourself or the strength of your relationships until both had been tested by ADVERSITY.
LIFE is not a checklist of acquisition or achievements...LIFE is difficult and complicated and beyond anyone's control.
We don't need magic to make a change because the magic is already in our minds.
[NOTES I've made from J.K ROWLING's SPEECH at HARVARD COMMENCEMENT]