I'm starting to think,in today's generation If you are good looking,smart and woman with a class,then people in general will give you a VIP treatment most of the time. However,make one mistake and they get shocked and start judging your life.When you are that perfect,society treats you like there's no room for mistake.When you suddenly get wrinkles or pimples because God forbid you got older,people glare at you like you committed a crime. I have no scientific basis here but this is my observation in general specially when watching random celebrity interviews or when reading the headlines. If you are pretty but dumb,you'll be a laughingstock.Some people you taught were your friends just used you and then just watch you make one mistake after the other and just watch you stumble then they laugh more.In their mind,you are a typical beauty without brains. If you are physically unattractive( to the standards of the society ) but smart, confident and likeable,you will be look up to.People will confide in you and want to be like you. If you are average and normal,they regard you as boring.Apparently,the new definition of coolness today is to be a social standout in a queer way. Coolness seemed like it's measured in your experience about drugs,unlimited sex,endless relationships,odd fashion,tattoos,piercings,hang outs and parties. Try talking about your advocacy on peace,health and wellness,human rights and they think you are boring with many personal issues. I experienced talking about what I'm passionate of real issues we are facing and I really have so much to talk about and I get the " dude,chill! Why do you have to carry the weight of the world on your shoulder" glare even from my closest friends. Talk about make ups,celebrity scandals,gossip other people's lives and you'll get their attention. Don't waste your time and strength trying so hard to look as beautiful Georgina Wilson because it's not gonna happen unless you have her genes. Call me old fashion but this is reality. The lesson I learn to survive this deadly society is knowing my strengths and use it to my own advantage. Instead of trying to get approval or likes on your Facebook status,why not try to make this world a better place.Stop just putting the blame to society for everything.Remember,you are society and to be able to change it,we have to start from ourselves. Being positive and kind all the time despite going some difficult time is helpful for you to see the good side of the situation and help others to start their day with positivism too.
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